Comments on Arizona Writer: Unexpected conversations

Except that "a long time" to a 9 or 10 y...

2011-11-19T12:56:32.618-07:00

Except that "a long time" to a 9 or 10 year old kid can be as little as a year...that's AGES for a kid...My own child was HUGELY relieved to hear that this or that biological development was a long, long way off, because it meant she did not have to think about it today or this week. Next year? Whatever. I think giving the child that "out" is a great comfort to them. Lets them feel young and protected and not facing adult-style responsibility for a while. It's both funny and sad to hear a child who's only in sixth grade mourning nostalgically for the carefree days of his or her "youth" in fifth grade.

"What if one person is a kid, and the other p...

2011-11-19T10:25:21.634-07:00

"What if one person is a kid, and the other person is an adult?" Seriously? That is surprising. But maybe it's because you emphasized the _opposite_ when you said, "Well, if you're an _adult_ and the other person is an _adult_…" I think sometimes when we try so hard to get someone not to think of something it just makes them think of it even more.

"What does sex feel like?" That's a great question. When I was four, and I asked my mom to tell me how babies were really made (and she told me in textbook detail), my one question was, "What if he has to pee while he's in there?"

"It's not something that you even have to think about for a long time." Really? He's going to hit puberty before you know it, and then he'll be thinking about it all the time. It will go from "Ew!" to "Oo!" Get ready! ;-)

You sure have to trust your instincts when bubbles...

2011-11-17T15:35:53.154-07:00

You sure have to trust your instincts when bubbles pop!
Such a beautiful picture.

Oh, this made me chuckle, thinking back on similar...

2011-11-17T08:33:48.606-07:00

Oh, this made me chuckle, thinking back on similar chats with my daughter when she was little. There are some mornings I wish I could just sit down to coffee with all the blog writers I follow and swap stories IRL! The "big questions" really do come out of the blue, don't they.

Oh my, I'm glad my child is long beyond those ...

2011-11-17T07:09:02.458-07:00

Oh my, I'm glad my child is long beyond those conversations. You did a good job!

Wow, Kim! What a tough conversation to have. I thi...

2011-11-17T06:19:48.251-07:00

Wow, Kim! What a tough conversation to have. I think you handled it beautifully, though. And it's so great that your son can have that type of discussion with you in the first place, without seeming to feel uncomfortable. It's a testament to both your parenting and his smarts! :)